Wednesday, December 30, 2020
As much as the pandemic has created a different sense of time, celebrations on the Church’s liturgical calendar remain compact.
On Thursday, January 1, which is the Octave of Christmas, we celebrate the Solemnity of Mary as the Mother of God. From ancient times, Mary has been honored as “God-bearer” (Theotokos), that is the “Mother of God.” It wasn’t until the Council of Ephesus, A.D. 431 that this belief of the faithful was officially defined by the Church. (There were other issues concerning our beliefs regarding the person of Jesus Christ, for which this proclamation served as a timely ally. But those explanations are left for another time.)
Initially, our parish adopted this solemnity as our Feast Day. However, two years ago, Pope Francis designated the feast of Mary, Mother of the Church to be celebrated on the Monday after Pentecost. Pope Paul VI was the first advocate for giving Mary this particular title as Mother of the Church. This took place at the end of the 3rd session of the Second Vatican Council, November 1964.
On Sunday, January 3, we celebrate the Feast of the Epiphany. All of us are familiar with the story of the journey of the magi. Along with the feast of the Baptism of the Lord, which occurs on January 10, the feast of the Epiphany is often considered Christmas by our Orthodox brothers and sisters who use the Julian Calendar, rather than the Gregorian calendar that we in the Roman tradition use. These are the days (Epiphany & the Baptism of the Lord) when Jesus Christ was “announced” to the Gentiles, as represented by the magi.
This is a wonderful story about one of our young parishioners, Lucas Menz, who is a senior at St. John Vianney High School. This article appeared in the December 21st edition of the St. Louis Review.
https://www.archstl.org/vianney-student-leads-his-schools-effort-to-buy-toys-for-children-6018
On a lighter note x 2
#1 Hmmm…..
Many believe that if the Magi were women they would have asked for directions, arrived on time, helped deliver the baby, cleaned the stable, brought practical gifts and made a casserole.
#2 More singing!!!!
Over these next few days enjoy what has now become a modern Christmas classic!
As another day comes to an end,
may each of us have a restful and peaceful night and
a joy-filled Feast of the Epiphany!
Fr. Chuck
December 25, 2020
Loving God,
We thank you for the family of Mary, Joseph & Jesus.
It was at home with his parents
that Jesus grew in wisdom and age and your grace,
that he learned to know the Law and the Prophets,
that he learned to do right and love goodness.
Bless with strength and patience and good humor all
who would make such homes today.
We ask this in the name of Jesus the Lord. Amen.
I have been doing a lot of “You-Tubing” over these past months. I’m not even sure if that is a word but what I mean by it is that I have viewing a lot of You Tube videos as I decide which videos to include in my Flocknotes. Are you familiar with a group called The Piano Guys? They are one of my new discoveries and I have been delighted to make their acquaintance. Here are 2 Christmas Carol videos for your viewing & listening pleasure: “Angels We Have Heard on High” and “Carol of the Bells.”
As another day comes to an end,
may each of us have a restful and peaceful night and
a joy-filled Christmas season!
Fr. Chuck
December 22, 20200
On behalf of the staff — Deacon Randy Howe, Mrs. Ann Garavaglia, Mrs. Linda Licata, Mr. Nate Jackson, Mrs. Cheryl Degenhart, Mrs. Clare Ernst, Mr. Greg Klobe, Mrs. Michele Venable, Mrs. Mary Brutcher, Deacon Dick Coffman & Deacon Bob Smerek — I pray that your Christmas days may be filled with an abundance of blessings and love, even if those blessings and expressions of love are different than how we’ve experienced them before. I would like to also offer a special word of thanks to all those who helped decorate the church for Advent and Christmas.
As we once again enter into the mystery of God’s Incarnate Love, I offer you this Christmas blessing that I received from a colleague: May Christ fill your heart with love and sensitivity to all you meet; with a willingness to share the abundance of your labor and possessions with those in need; with a desire to go out of your way to comfort the lonely and shut-ins; with a need to break the silences of anger and resentments; with an urge to forgive those who have hurt you; and with the determination to respect the earth that God has provided for us during our pilgrimage back home. Shalom!
As we make the transition from Advent into Christmas, today's video combines the carol “O Come, O Come Emmanuel” with images from the Christmas events.
As another day comes to an end,
may each of us have a restful and peaceful night and
a joy-filled Christmas season!
Fr. Chuck
Friday, December 18, 2020
Many of you may already be familiar with Matthew Kelly. If you are not, Matthew is from Australia and is the founder of The Dynamic Catholic Institute, a Cincinnati-based nonprofit organization, whose mission is to “re-energize the Catholic Church in America by developing world-class resources that inspire people to rediscover the genius of Catholicism.”
Since our interaction with one another has been limited due to the pandemic, I thought reading a book together as a parish might be a simple way to be connected with one another. The name of the book is I Heard God Laugh. Even before I read it, I thought this book just might have the message we need to hear this Christmas, especially in light of all that we have experienced over these past ten months. My thoughts were true and it’s an easy, engaging read.
Beginning this weekend — December 19 / 20 — copies of the book will be available both in the vestibule of Church and in the plastic bin outside the front door. They will also be available on Christmas Eve & Day and next weekend, December 26 / 27. Initially, I ask that you take only 1 book per household. If there are books leftover after December 26 / 27, feel free to take additional books.
Merry Christmas!
Fr. Chuck Barthel
Music has this ability to help us remember certain events or experiences in our lives because we connect the music with our feelings and memories. For example, the hymn that many people associate with the season of Advent is “O Come, O Come Emmanuel.” We’ll be singing all 7 verses of that classic Advent carol at our liturgies this weekend. The video for this coming Tuesday evening – Enya’s version of “O Come, O Come Emmanuel” – will bridge the last days of Advent with images from the Infancy Narratives.
Sometimes musicians take the words of a classic and write them in a different style. That’s this evening’s music video, entitled “Emmanuel” by Steve Angrisano. The connection for me is this is the song we sang forthe recessional for my dad’s funeral celebrated on December 21, 2015.
As another day comes to an end,
may each of us have a restful and peaceful night and
a grace-filled Advent season!
Fr. Chuck
Friday, December 11, 2020
The 3rd Sunday of Advent is called “Gaudete” Sunday, which is the imperative form of the Latin word “gaudeo” meaning “Rejoice!” There are at least two reasons for that title. Reason #1: The word “rejoice” can be found in either the first readings and / or the second readings that are proclaimed on the 3rd Sunday of Advent in all three Cycles of our Sunday lectionary. Reason #2: When the focus of Advent was more penitential in nature, this Sunday was a reminder that we have passed the half-way point of Advent and the remaining days of Advent grow fewer.
This is also the weekend when rose vestments may be worn if the parish has them. Noticed I said “rose” and not “pink.” Some folks, especially the liturgical police, get very particular about how this color is named.
As an aside, and depending on your source, did you know that there are anywhere between 13 and 20 colors of roses, and that each of the colors or shades have a particular meaning? Pink roses symbolize gratitude, grace, and joy. Overall, pink roses suggest a gentleness compared to the typical bright red rose. If you think about it, those are some of the very reasons why we celebrate Gaudete Sunday and its rose color!
Christmas Mass Sign-Ups as of 12/11/20:
4:00 pm > 5 seats still available in Church / 125 in the Reilly Center / 40 in the Hall
7:00 pm > 45 seats are available in Church, which is all we will need to use.
9:00 am > 3 seats still available in Church / plenty of room in the Reilly Center & Hall
11:00 am > Church is at capacity / only 1 person is in the Parish Hall and 1 person is in the Reilly Center (Hospitality Ministers). I would encourage folks to sit in the Parish Hall before sitting in the Reilly Center.
Parish Reconciliation Service – Tuesday, December 15 – 7:00 pm
Our parish penance service is scheduled for 7:00 pm this Tuesday. Fr. Pete Schavitz, CSSR, Fr. Rich Heman and I will be available for individual celebrations of the Sacrament of Reconciliation after an opening prayer service.
Only 1 Attachment
With Mrs. Degenhart finishing her quarantine at home this weekend, regrettably I don’t have access to a Catholic Kids Bulletin for this weekend.
What is something you saw or heard this week that made you smile
or say “ah” or “a-ha?” What is something new you might have done?
In light of Gaudete Sunday’s second reading from 1st Thessalonians,
for what are you grateful? For what are you rejoicing?
In East Africa...
Friday, December 4, 2020
A Milestone!
When I started writing an update back in March, I never would have imagined that we would be sending 50 of these Nightly News / Stay-at-Home / Staying Connected updates to the parish! But here it is > #50 on December 4, 2020!
Here’s what I wrote for the first one dated March 23, 2020.
"In order to keep you up to date on things happening here at Mary, Mother, while at the same time limiting the number of emails you receive from the parish, you will occasionally be receiving a Flocknote entitled “The Nightly Update.” This is issue #1!
May each of us have a restful night!"
Over these past 8+ months, I have learned how to do a lot of things with Flocknote, which certainly wasn’t on my “to do list” for 2020! Thanks for reading the updates - thanks for your replies and suggestions.
And not just here at the Parish! Even with taking these precautions, over the past week some of the staff members have had to quarantine while they awaited test results for a family member who was showing symptoms.
Friday, November 27, 2020
A New Opportunity for Advent – and Beyond!!!
Even prior to the pandemic and virtual learning taking place everywhere, many companies were focusing on the digital world and the internet as the way to make resources available to parishioners. Earlier in September, our parish purchased a subscription for a program called, FORMED, which is a division of the St. Augustine Institute, a catechetical institute based in Denver, CO. FORMED will provide us with a vast selection of opportunities to learn and grow in our faith lives, especially while we are being “safer at home.” Their site is full of programs, movies, books, for everyone in the family!
This program is free to all registered parishioners of Mary, Mother of the Church. Signing up is a simple three-step process. Once you have signed up, all of FORMED’s content is available to you!
To Signup: access their website using the link below (click the button)
That was the easy part! The not-so-easy part may be feeling overwhelmed by so many choices. During the months of December and January, Cheryl Degenhart, our Director of Faith Formation, and a small committee will be putting together a suggested list of programs you might consider trying first. If you are the adventurous type, feel free to view some of the topics available from FORMED. If you want to wait for some suggestions, they will be coming your way soon.
This evening’s tune comes from the Taize Community in France.
Its repetitive nature is a nice transition into the Advent season.
As another day comes to an end,
may each of us have a restful and peaceful night and
a grace-filled Advent season!
Fr. Chuck
If you had signed up to attend Mass on Thanksgiving Day,
but are no longer able to do so,
please call the parish office on Wednesday
so that your name can be removed from the list.
As a trial run for Christmas and contact tracing,
please see a hospitality minister as you enter
Church or the Parish Hall on Thanksgiving Day
so they can check off your name as you enter.
I vow to thee, my country, all earthly things above,
Entire and whole and perfect, the service of my love;
The love that asks no questions, the love that stands the test,
That lays upon the altar the dearest and the best;
The love that never falters, the love that pays the price,
The love that makes undaunted the final sacrifice.
And there's another country, I've heard of long ago,
Most dear to them that love her, most great to them that know;
We may not count her armies, we may not see her King;
Her fortress is a faithful heart, her pride is suffering;
And soul by soul and silently her shining bounds increase,
And her ways are ways of gentleness, and all her paths are peace
Dear Parishioners,
I don’t know about you, but over these past 8 months, I find myself to be very attuned when something doesn’t “feel right” in my body. One reason for that is because some things like soreness from exercising or drainage caused by allergies can seem like COVID-19 symptoms. Such was my experience this past week. Since Tuesday, something just didn’t seem right in my body. The only COVID-19 like symptoms I showed were that my body ached and I had an occasional dry cough. I had no temperature, shortness of breath or chills. However, with the recent increase of positive COVID-19 cases, last evening (Thursday) my internist recommended that I get tested, which is what I did today (Friday).
This afternoon, I went to a CVS that does a rapid test and the result was positive for COVID-19. The only instructions that were given to me were that I was to self-quarantine for 14 days. I then informed my internist of the results.
I have contacted the Archdiocese, and I await further instructions from the County Health Department. This afternoon the staff and I began to formulate and implement a response plan. Here is that plan.
Response
*due to copyright permission limitations, the Children's bulletin may not be posted on our website. If you would like to recieve a copy of the weekly Children's bulletin via email, contact the parish office.
Friday, October 16, 2020
Father Chuck is taking a break from this week's Update, and has asked me to send it. He will be back with Stay at Home Update #44 next week! - Ann Garavaglia
*due to copyright permission limitations, the Children's bulletin may not be posted on our website. If you would like to recieve a copy of the weekly Children's bulletin via email, contact the parish office.
Sunday, September 27 is the feast of St. Vincent de Paul, the secondary patron of our Archdiocese. Monsieur Vincent, as he is known, was born April 24, 1581, and died September 27, 1680. On of my favorite stories about Vincent is a description of a conversion experience early on in his priesthood. “The deathbed confession of a servant opened Vincent’s eyes to the crying spiritual needs of the peasanty of France. This seems to have been a crucial moment in the life of the man from a small farm in Gascony, France, who had become a priest with little more ambition than to have a comfortable life.” [Leonard Foley OFM] How quickly things changed for this man who became known as “the Apostle of Charity.”
St. Vincent embraced humble and grateful service to others, especially to those who are poor. Vincent’s concern was for the whole person > body, mind and spirit. This holistic approach to caring translates to all of the Vincentian and Daughter of Charity ministries – education, social services, health care, missions and spiritual formation.
There is still time to sign up to participate in the event, either by being present in person with a mask OR by livestreaming.
We are asking EVERYONE who plans to ATTEND OR LIVESTREAM to
sign up. (There is a signup option for in person and one for live stream).
Sign-Up to attend:
https://www.signupgenius.com/go/60b0d4bafab2da3fe3-parish3
Access via livestream at:
https://www.marymother.org/live-stream-of-our-mass
There are two worship aids for this weekend, one is for the 430p and 900a Masses and the other is for the 1100a Mass.
Although this may not be your “standard” Grandparents’ Day greeting, the following poem by Shel Silverstein invites us to reflect upon those special grandparent / grandchild moments.
The Little Boy and the Old Man
by Shel Silverstein
Said the little boy, "Sometimes I drop my spoon."
Said the old man, "I do that too."
The little boy whispered, "I wet my pants."
"I do that too," laughed the little old man.
Said the little boy, "I often cry."
The old man nodded, "So do I."
"But worst of all," said the boy, "it seems
Grown-ups don't pay attention to me."
And he felt the warmth of a wrinkled old hand.
"I know what you mean," said the little old man.
As another day comes to an end,
may each of us have a restful and peaceful night!
Fr. Chuck
Eating Twinkies with God
Text:
Ubi caritas et amor, Deus ibi est.
Congregavit nos in unum Christi amor.
Exultemus, et in ipso iucundemur.
Timeamus, et amemus Deum vivum.
Et ex corde diligamus nos sincero.
Translation:
Where charity and love are, God is there.
Christ’s love has gathered us into one.
Let us rejoice and be pleased in Him.
Let us fear, and let us love the living God.
And may we love each other with a sincere heart.
As another day comes to an end,
may each of us have a restful and peaceful night!
Fr. Chuck
This past week a number of saints’ feast days were celebrated, including St. Augustine of Hippo on Friday, 8/28. His personal conversion journey is truly a testimony to grace and the intercession of others. His influence can be found in his homilies, his teachings, and his biography. Over a hundred religious communities have used his Rule of Life as the foundation for the rules of their community. This weekend I offer for your reflection three thoughts authored by St. Augustine that I enjoy pondering
.
On the Eucharist: “Behold what you are, become what you receive.”
On the Spiritual Journey: “You have made us for yourself, O Lord, and our heart is restless until it rests in you.”
On the Desires of the Heart: “Late have I loved you, O Beauty ever ancient, ever new, late have I loved you! You were within me, but I was outside, and it was there that I searched for you. In my unloveliness I plunged into the lovely things which you created. You were with me, but I was not with you. Created things kept me from you; yet if they had not been in you, they would not have been at all. You called, you shouted, and you broke through my deafness. You flashed, you shone, and you dispelled my blindness. You breathed your fragrance on me; I drew in breath and now I pant for you. I have tasted you, now I hunger and thirst for more. You touched me, and I burned for your peace.”
As another day comes to an end,
may each of us have a restful and peaceful night!
Fr. Chuck
This Tuesday, August 25, is the feast of St. Louis IX, King of France, patron of our Archdiocese and patron of our City & County. It is also the day when Archbishop-elect Mitchell Rozanski will be installed as the tenth Archbishop of St. Louis. There is so much for which we can pray: for our local Church, for our City and for our new Archbishop. Please take some time over the next few days to include all of these intentions in your prayer time.
In the midst of some heavy reflections I shared in this update (what does the safe return to school look like, the news about David Haas) and the continued reality of many positive COVID testings, I offer something very light and upbeat for the end of the day.
As another day comes to an end,
may each of us have a restful and peaceful night!
Fr. Chuck
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Virginia (Ginny) Bippen - Monday August 10 at 10:30 am, and will be livestreamed on our website and YouTube.
Pat Demuth - Saturday August 22 at 10:30 am, and will be livestreamed on our website and YouTube.
See below for more information and signup.
Jan Tafra - Saturday August 29 at 10:30 am, and will be livestreamed on our website and YouTube.
Suscipe – St. Ignatius Take, Lord, and receive all my liberty, my memory, my understanding, and my entire will, All that I have and possess. You have given all to me. To you, Lord, I return it. Everything is yours; dispose of it wholly according to Your will. Give me only your love and your grace, That is enough for me. |
The Good Thief Prayer – St. Alphonsus Lord Jesus, Look upon me as the good thief, who hung on the cross next to You at Calvary. A sinner, paying for his crimes but who recognizes your divinity and begs for mercy and forgiveness and asks: “Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom.” |
The weekend we welcome Michael James Mette and his family (MJM7) to our parish! MJM7 is a Catholic family band comprised of Michael James Mette and 4 of his daughters: Gabriella (15), Trinity (14), Charity (12), and Cecilia (11).
From the MJM7 website: Seeing a need in the church for relevant music and joy-filled faith, Michael began traveling the United States with his family sharing his music and speaking. That was eight years ago. Since then, the ministry has evolved into a Catholic family band that creates bridges and unites communities. The music reaches out of the Church and invites people into a deeper relationship with Jesus.
Michael and his family were with us for the weekend of March 3 / 4, 2018. As they did last time, MJM7 will be our music ministers for all three of our weekend Masses.
There will also be a concert at 7:00pm on Sunday evening in Church, with seating limited to 80 people. Just as we do for Mass, please sign up via Sign Up Genius, wear your masks and sit in the designated social distancing spots in Church.
The concert will be livestreamed. You can join us just as you do for Mass, via the parish website, YouTube & Facebook. https://marymother.org/
We have an opportunity to support Michael and his family’s music / evangelization ministry through a free will offering. There will be envelopes available in Church throughout the weekend for the offering. If you would like to donate by check, make the check payable to “Mette Family Ministries.”
You can also make a donation via their website: https://mjm7.band/
As the numbers continue to grow each day,
please keep in your thoughts and prayers:
As another day comes to an end,
may each of us have a restful and peaceful night!
Fr. Chuck
As another day comes to an end,
may each of us have a restful and peaceful night!
Fr. Chuck
By the numbers…
This weekend marks the 8th week since we have returned to the public celebration of Mass throughout the Archdiocese. The attendance at our weekend liturgies continues to grow. The first weekend there was a total of 105 parishioners who attended the 3 weekend Masses. We have now begun to average 155 parishioners attending each weekend. There are also approximately 475 people who are participating in the liturgy via livestreaming.
There is room for 80 parishioners at each Mass, which does not include the 10 liturgical ministers. Our average attendance at the 4:30p is 55, at the 9:00a, it is 60, and at the 11:00a, it is 40. So, if you’re feeling more confident in going outside your home, please consider joining us in person for the weekend liturgies.
For our weekday liturgies, our attendance is between 25 and 40 on any given day. An additional 85 people participate via our livestream
The New Colossus by Emma Lazarus
(Liberty Enlightening the World)
Not like the brazen giant of Greek fame,
With conquering limbs astride from land to land:
Here at our sea-washed, sunset gates shall stand
A mighty woman with a torch, whose flame
Is the imprisoned lightning, and her name
Mother of Exiles. From her beacon-hand
Glows world-wide welcome; her mild eyes command
The air-bridged harbor that twin cities frame.
“Keep, ancient lands, your storied pomp!” cries she
With silent lips. “Give me your tired, your poor,
Your huddled masses yearning to breathe free,
The wretched refuse of your teeming shore.
Send these, the homeless, tempest-tost, to me,
I lift my lamp beside the golden door!”
"Sometimes"
by the Carpenters
(an adaptation)
"Faith is taking the first step even when you don't see the whole staircase."
"Life's most persistent and urgent question is
'What are you doing for others?'”
Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.
Although these thoughts are from another time and place,
for me, they certainly are life lessons my dad taught me.
Three Reflections That Offer Different Perspectives for This Solemnity
Not one prayer – not one reflection – not one song can fully express this amazing gift that we are invited to receive and become!
Anima Christi
Soul of Christ, sanctify me.
Body of Christ, save me.
Blood of Christ, inebriate me.
Water from the side of Christ, wash me.
Passion of Christ, strengthen me.
O good Jesus, hear me.
Within your wounds conceal me.
Do not permit me to be parted from you.
From the evil foe protect me.
At the hour of my death call me.
And bid me come to you,
to praise you with all your saints
for ever and ever.
Amen.
O most holy Trinity,
Undivided unity,
Holy God, mighty God,
God immortal be adored.
Monday is our Parish Feast Day. As of 2:30pm on Sunday afternoon, 30 people have signed up to join us for the celebration of the Eucharist on Monday. If you are not able to join us for Mass, either in person or via live stream, please consider setting aside some time during the day to pray the following prayer, to listen to the song “O Mary of the Promise” and / or to pray for our parishioners and our parish.
You have given to the Church
a model of discipleship in our Blessed Mother.
She is the daughter who listens,
who embraces your words with joy
treasuring them in the silence of her heart.
She is the woman of prayer
who sings of your mercy in her canticle of praise,
who shows concern for the bride and bridegroom of Cana
and intercedes for them with her Son,
who prays with the apostles in oneness of mind and heart.
She is the Mother,
who gives birth to your Son
by the power of the Holy Spirit,
and at the foot of the cross
is proclaimed as mother
of the people of the New Covenant.
She is the disciple who keeps vigil,
awaiting the resurrection of her Son
with unwavering hope
and looking forward to the coming of the Holy Spirit,
with steadfast faith.
May we embrace this woman of faith in our lives
just as the beloved disciple welcomed her into his home.
O Mary, Mother of the Church, pray for us!
As another day will soon come to an end,
may each of us have a restful and peaceful night!
Fr. Chuck
Come, Holy Spirit,
from heaven shine forth with your glorious light.
Veni Sancte Spiritus.
Come from the four winds, O Spirit,
come breath of God;
disperse the shadows over us,
renew and strengthen your people.
Veni Sancte Spiritus.
Kindle in our hearts the flame of your love
that in the darkness of the world
it may grow and reach to all forever.
Veni Sancte Spiritus.
This flag is presented on behalf of a grateful nation
and the United States Army as a token of appreciation
for your loved one's honorable and faithful service.
Our Memorial Day Mass is at 9:00am on Monday.
Two songs will be sung during the liturgy
and they are included as an attachment with this email.
Grace Indeed Is Amazing!
What is something you saw or heard this week that made you smile
or say “ah” or “a-ha?” What is something new you might have done?
Fr. Chuck
All you peoples, clap your hands,
shout your joy to God.
For our Most High God is awesome,
a great king over all the earth.
One of the reasons signing up for a specific Mass time is important is not only because there are a limited number of seats available, but, if heaven forbid, someone tests positive for the virus, we would have a list which could assist in contact tracing.
Reminders for this weekend:
This weekend (May 23/24) is the first weekend when a limited number of parishioners can return to the parish for the celebration of the Eucharist. Here are a few reminders:
Each household needs to schedule themselves for a particular Mass via Sign Up Genius. You can access this sign up by means of our parish website or by calling the parish office during weekday business hours.
Everyone must wear a mask while they are at Church.
Please bring a printed worship aid with you from your home if you are able. They can be found as an attachment with this stay-at-home update.
Finally, the hospitality ministers are ready to offer you assistance and to answer your questions.
Other Reminders:
Bread for the World – 2020 Letter Writing Campaign – Peggy DolterFor your convenience, here is a link to our parish website:
Grace Indeed Is Amazing!
What is something you saw or heard this week that made you smile
or say “ah” or “a-ha?” What is something new you might have done?
From a parishioner: My daughter Susan came for a short visit and brought her two granddaughters – skinny, delicate 8 year-old Daphne with her thin blonde shoulder length hair self-dyed a light orange color and lovely little 2½ year-old Penelope talking non-stop but with few sounds that I could recognize as words. I hadn't seen the great grandchildren since Christmas, and it was thrilling. They lifted my spirits like nothing else could and I'm so grateful.
As another day comes to an end,
may each of us have a restful and peaceful night!
Fr. Chuck
Through him the children of light rise to eternal life
and the halls of the heavenly Kingdom
are thrown open to the faithful;
for his Death is our ransom from death,
and in his rising the life of all has risen.
Preface II of Easter
Update from the Archdiocese:
We knew the when – May 18. That is when the public celebration of the Mass will resume in our Archdiocese. Now we know the what – what the specific guidelines are for the resumption of those Masses. Our next task is the how – how to implement those guidelines in our parish.
I received the guidelines for the restarting of public Masses earlier this (Tuesday) morning – 3 sets of them. Since some of the information is repeated, I am including only 2 sets of the guidelines as attachments with this Flocknote. On Thursday morning, I will be meeting with a few staff members and parishioners to review and begin strategizing how we will implement these guidelines.
The following are what I would consider to be the top 4 guidelines that might create that “sticker shock” feeling, especially after hearing that we were resuming the public celebration of the Mass.
Anyone over 60 years-old and those with underlying health complications are encouraged to participate in Masses via live-stream only.
By adhering to the social distancing at 6 ft., we have space for no more than 80 parishioners and 10 ministers for each weekend liturgy. We will have space for 85 parishioners for the weekday 830am Mass.
Everyone attending Mass is obligated to wear a mask or other facial covering. The only exception during Mass is when we are seated in the pew and when receiving Holy Communion.
Volunteers will be needed to help sanitize the Church after each Mass that is celebrated.
There will be other guidelines that will be specific for our parish. For example, what will the Communion procession look like? Over the next week , I will share that information with you in small increments, with the hope of not overwhelming you all at once. I will also highlight some of changes in my homily for this upcoming weekend.
Grace Indeed Is Amazing!
What is something you saw or heard this week that made you smile
or say “ah” or “a-ha?” What is something new you might have done?
From a parishioner: “I appreciate that only white flowers are placed to enhance the baptismal font. I find myself drawn to that area before Mass. I don’t ever remember spending as much time meditating on my baptismal vows, and what they mean, as I have, simply because of the thoughtful placement of the white flowers.”
As another day comes to an end,
may each of us have a restful and peaceful night!
Fr. Chuck
FAQs Restart of Masses.pdf
Summary of Guidelines for Parishioners.pdf
God to enfold me, God to surround me,
God in my speaking, God in my thinking.
God in my sleeping, God in my waking,
God in my watching, God in my hoping.
God in my life, God in my lips,
God in my soul, God in my heart.
from an Ancient Celtic Prayer
A Reminder: Once again I will be available for the celebration of the Sacrament of Reconciliation from 11:30am until 1:00pm in the Reconciliation Room in Church this Sunday, May 10. There is a distance of 6’ between the penitent and me for face-to-face celebrations. For those who prefer the anonymity of the screen, I would ask that you use a Clorox wipe that will be provided for you on the screen as you leave.
The music for this weekend, the Fifth Sunday of Easter, is included as a [link - see below]
Gathering for the Eucharist: As many of you have heard by now, Thursday evening Archbishop Carlson announced that the public celebration of the Eucharist would resume on Monday, May 18. I really am looking forward to gathering with you at the Table of the Word and the Eucharist. However, the “when” (May 18) was the easy part of the announcement. The “what” has yet to be promulgated. Early next week, we will be receiving guidelines as to what initially the return to celebrating the Eucharist will look like. As I mentioned in this weekend’s bulletin article, when we next gather for the Eucharist, it will not initially be celebrated as it was the last time we gathered on March 7/8.
In that bulletin article I named some of the ways that I was anticipating how the return might look like. If you want to get a preview of again how the return might look like, please go to the parish website at marymother.org... and click the News tab for access to the latest bulletin.
As another day comes to an end,
may each of us have a restful and peaceful night!
Happy Mother's Day to All of Our Moms!
Fr. Chuck
Update from the Archdiocese
The suspension of public Masses will continue through Friday, May 15.
Archbishop Carlson’s decision about when to resume public Masses is directly tied to the decisions made by Mayor Krewson and County Executive Page. The following information was released today, Wednesday, May 6, by the mayor and county executive.
“Both St. Louis and St. Louis County will begin to lift stay-at-home restrictions by May 18, but County Executive Sam Page and Mayor Lyda Krewson said Wednesday that residents shouldn't expect things to return to normal.
They said in separate briefings that some nonessential businesses probably will be allowed to reopen May 18, but rules for masks will be in place. Businesses will be asked to have employees who interact with the public wear face masks, and the city and county are considering allowing businesses to refuse service to customers who aren't covering their faces, according to both leaders.
Krewson and Page said a more detailed plan with specific social distancing rules and instructions for businesses will be released later this week. Krewson said Wednesday the tentative plan will recommend strongly that all people wear masks in public places but won't require it. A ban on social gatherings of more than 10 people also likely would continue 'for a while.' "
Celebrating the Sacrament of Reconciliation on Sunday
I will once again be available for the celebration of the Sacrament of Reconciliation this Sunday, May 10, from 11:30am until 1:00pm in the Reconciliation Room in Church. There is a distance of 6’ between the penitent and me for face-to-face celebrations. For those who prefer the anonymity of the screen, I would ask that you use a Clorox wipe that will be provided for you on the screen as you leave.
Opportunities for Prayer – A Prayer Suggestion from a Parishioner
As a retired nurse, I am frustrated that I can’t help with the medical crisis. The mind and the heart are willing, but not the body. In the past I have volunteered at the hospital for the “No One Dies Alone” program, whereby we sit at the bedside of a terminally ill patient who has no family or friends available. During the recent Divine Mercy Novena, I prayed the chaplet daily. It has now become a daily habit – it’s nice to acquire a positive one for a change! Since I might not be able to help care for their body, I can help care for their soul. Each day I dedicate the chaplet to a corona patient who is dying alone. Perhaps others might want to join me in performing this spiritual work of mercy. If not the Divine Mercy Chaplet, perhaps an adapted version of the prayer to St. Joseph for a Happy Death.
O Blessed Joseph, you gave your last breath in the loving embrace of Jesus and Mary. When the seal of death shall close the life of another victim of the coronavirus, come with Jesus and Mary to aid them. Obtain for them this solace for that hour – to die with Jesus and Mary’s holy arms around this person who is alone. Jesus, Mary and Joseph, I commend the soul of this child of God, living and dying, into your sacred arms. Amen.
Grace Indeed Is Amazing!
What is something you saw or heard this week that made you smile
or say “ah” or “a-ha?” What is something new you might have done?
From a parishioner: “I am being shown less is more. My true self, come as I am.
Just Be. Leave the high maintenance and the need to focus to my merciful God.”
As another day comes to an end,
may each of us have a restful and peaceful night!
Fr. Chuck
The king of love my shepherd is,
Whose goodness fails me never;
I nothing lack if I am his,
And he is mine for ever.
– Henry W. Baker
Nineteenth Century
A Reminder: Once again I will be available for the celebration of the Sacrament of Reconciliation from 11:30am until 1:00pm in the Reconciliation Room in Church this Sunday, May 3. There is a distance of 6’ between the penitent and me for face-to-face celebrations. For those who prefer the anonymity of the screen, I would ask that you use a Clorox wipe that will be provided for you on the screen as you leave.
Please continue to pray for the priests and staff of Regina Cleri. Early Friday evening I received an update that 28 of the 31 priests at Regina Cleri have tested positive for COVID-19. Currently, eight of those twenty-eight individuals are in the hospital. In addition to the twenty-eight, ten of the staff have also tested positive, and four of them are currently in the hospital. We entrust the care of all who have tested positive for the virus to Jesus, the Divine Physician.
On more of an upbeat note, this coming Thursday, May 7, is Fr. T’s birthday. A parishioner suggested sending him a note or a card wishing him a Happy Birthday! Keep your message simple and identify yourself as being from Mary, Mother. His address is:
Msgr. Jim Telthorst
Faith Community, Apt. #7
7609 Watson Rd.
St. Louis, MO 63119
The music for this weekend, the Fourth Sunday of Easter, is included as an attachment.
In our readings this weekend, we listen to stories about the Good Shepherd. Rather than share with you a bedtime story or lullaby, I would invite you to simply enjoy the following video.
youtube.com/watch?v=e4...
As another day comes to an end,
may each of us have a restful and peaceful night!
Fr. Chuck
We turn to you for protection,
holy Mother of God.
Listen to our prayers
and help us in our needs.
Save us from every danger,
glorious and blessed Virgin.
– A Third Century Prayer
Updates from the Archdiocese
Two Opportunities for Prayer
Opportunity #1
Archbishop Jose H. Gomez of Los Angeles, president of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops, has invited us to join our Canadian brothers and sisters on Friday, May 1 in consecrating the two nations to the care of the Blessed Mother under the title “Mary, Mother of the Church.”
“This will give the church the occasion to pray for Our Lady’s continued protection of the vulnerable, healing of the unwell and wisdom for those who work to cure this terrible virus,” said Gomez in a letter to the U.S. bishops. Each year, the church seeks the special intercession of the Mother of God during the month of May. This year, we seek the assistance of Our Lady all the more earnestly as we face together the effects of the global pandemic,” he said.
This consecration reaffirms the bishops’ previous consecrations of the United States to Mary. In 1792, the first bishop of the United States, Bishop John Carroll, consecrated the nation to Mary under the title Immaculate Conception, and in 1846, the bishops unanimously chose Mary under that title as the patroness of the nation.
You can view the consecration via livestream at 2:00pm CDT at usccb.org/consecration....
A copy of the worship aid for joining in the livestreaming of the consecration OR for praying it on your own / with your family is included as an attachment.
Opportunity #2
Pope Francis has recently composed two prayers asking for the intercession of the Blessed Mother in ending the COVID-19 pandemic. He would like for those who pray the rosary during the month of May to add these 2 prayers at the conclusion. These prayers are also included as an attachment.
Grace Indeed Is Amazing!
What is something you saw or heard this week that made you smile
or say “ah” or “a-ha?” What is something new you might have done?
As another day comes to an end,
may each of us have a restful and peaceful night!
Fr. Chuck
Consecration of USA to Mary, Mother of the Church.pdf
two prayers for the conclusion of the Rosary.pdf
We turn to you for protection,
holy Mother of God.
Listen to our prayers
and help us in our needs.
Save us from every danger,
glorious and blessed Virgin.
A Reminder: Beginning on Sunday, April 26, I will be available for the celebration of the Sacrament of Reconcilation from 11:15am until 1:00pm in the Reconciliation Room in Church. There is a distance of 6’ between the penitent and me for face-to-face celebrations. For those who prefer the anonymity of the screen, I would ask that you use a Clorox wipe that will be provided for you on the screen as you leave.
Rather than a bedtime story from Fr. Chuck, tonight it’s a song. (I am hesitant to call it a lullaby, although some may find it quite comforting.) The title of the hymn is “Shelter Me.”
The composer is J. Michael Joncas, a priest of the Archdiocese of St. Paul and Minneapolis and a prolific liturgical composer. Most of us know him as the composer of “On Eagle's Wings.” When asked about this new creation, Fr. Joncas said he woke up in the middle of the night on March 25 with a “nagging idea.” He had been praying about the coronavirus and wondered if music could play a special role in these uncertain times. “What popped up was, maybe there is a way to pray about this that also involves song and that would touch people at a different level,” he said.
There are a number of different churches that have performed this hymn. The one I selected is the Church of the Risen Savior in Burnsville, MN. This is the link to the performance.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qgNGsrwGHz0
I also have included a copy of the lyrics as an attachment. Enjoy!
As another day comes to an end,
may each of us have a restful and peaceful night!
Fr. Chuck
Lyrices for "Shelter Me" by J Michael Joncas
Because we have been gifted with God’s peace in the risen Christ,
we are called to our own peace and to the making of peace in our world.
As disciples and as children of God, it is our task to seek for ways
in which to make the forgiveness, justice, mercy and love of God visible.
– The Challenge of Peace
I have heard that my stay-at-home updates are now being referred to as “Bedtime Stories with Fr. Chuck.”
Talk about adding on another layer of stress on a guy!!
So, I guess I should begin with “In a galaxy, far, far away….”
New Updates from the Archdiocese
As another day comes to an end,
may each of us have a restful and peaceful night!
Fr. Chuck
May the light of Christ, rising in Glory,
dispel the darkness of our hearts and minds.
I’ve enjoyed the pride and delight with which parishioners and friends have sent me photos of their light from the Easter Candle burning in the window of their homes.
As another day comes to an end,
may each of us have a restful and peaceful night!
Fr. Chuck
Stay-at-Home Update #9
It is an unusual word that is not native to the English or even the Latin liturgical vocabulary: the word “Alleluia.” As a matter of fact, it sounds less like a meaningful word than the babbling of a child, and when it is sung with many notes for the final vowel, this impression becomes even stronger.
“Alleluia” does, of course, have a meaning. It is a Hebrew word, and down the centuries the church has brought it with her, untranslated (like “Amen”), as a product of the Jewish soil from which she herself sprang and as a reminder of her earliest days.
The word is a cry of jubilation meaning “Praise the Lord,” and occurs frequently in the Psalms.
As we gaze at the Sun that has risen high over the darkness and cold of our Good Friday, all well-chosen words are useless. We can only stammer out our Alleluia of wonder and jubilation.
Balthasar Fischer
Live Streaming Our Masses
It’s been a delight to read so many notes from our parishioners expressing their gratitude for being able to view the Mass being live-streamed from their own parish.Upgrading the video camera has taken that gratitude to a whole new level.In the midst of the upheaval that has accompanied this stay-at-home time, I am very glad that we have been able to provide a way in which our parishioners can experience some sense of continuity and familiarity.
As we now begin our 2nd month of livestreaming, I’ve been asked to reduce the number of people that make up the worshipping community for our Masses. Beginning Friday, April 17, everyone who signs up for a specific Mass will need to serve as a liturgical minister, other than the ministry of being a member of the assembly.
For the 830am weekday Masses, there will be only two people attending the weekday Masses.One person will be the reader and the other will be the server. For the Saturday evening 430pm Mass and the Sunday morning 900am Mass, there will only be four people attending those Masses.The ministries are:2 readers, 1 server and 1 person to present the gifts.For the person who serves, there is no need to wear an alb.Even if you have never served before, all you need to do is hold the Missal for me for the Opening Prayer and the Prayer after Communion.
Our Sign-Up Genius schedule reflects these new changes.Only one change needed to be made for the existing weekday Masses through the end of April and that’s already been taken care of.I have asked Deacon Randy to reach out to the folks who had already signed up for the weekend Masses in order to make adjustments in the schedule.
In addition to the ministries named, there is one more ministry that is open for your participation, and that is to be a song leader!For this ministry at the weekday Masses, you need to be able to lead the opening and closing hymn of Mass, the Alleluia and the Amen.For the weekend Masses, you will be singing a duet with Ken Barnes, at a distance of 6 ft. apart.If you are willing to be a song leader, you need to contact Ken for the weekend Masses and me for the weekday Masses.
Grace Indeed Is Amazing!
Fr. Chuck
This evening, during the adoration of the Cross, there was some silence after the singing of the song “Behold the Wood.” During that silence, I was struck by the solitary Cross placed at the entrance of the sanctuary and hearing the water of our font cascading. The Cross and the waters of Baptism are what it’s all about!
As another day comes to an end,
may each of us have a restful and peaceful night!
Fr. Chuck
“We should glory in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ,
for he is our salvation, our live and our resurrection;
through him we are saved and made free.”
from the Introductory Rite for Holy Thursday
New Updates from the Archdiocese
Parish News – New Items:
As we enter into Holy Week, Pope Francis wanted to share with us
a few thoughts.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xMJDCnmdhRg
One thing that I really enjoy about watching Pope Francis give a talk / hold a press conference is when he lifts his eyes from his text. Watch for it. It's as though he is awed by the meaning of what he is about to say. It also probably drives all of his assistants crazy as they are thinking: "Here we go again. Is he going off script? What's he going to say next?"
We lift up in prayer everyone we know by name who has tested positive
for the virus.
May all of us have a restful and peaceful night!
Fr. Chuck
Random thoughts on a Friday evening….
New Updates from the Archdiocese
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5WuaDK0mTc4&feature=youtu.be
As another day comes to an end,
may each of us have a restful and peaceful night!
Fr. Chuck
Bulletin for 032920 - Addendum - Why do bad things.pdf
May each of us have a restful night!
May each of us have a restful night!
Dear Parishioners: From Archbishop Carlson: In order to help slow the spread of COVID-19 in our community, I am mandating the suspension of all public celebrations of the Eucharist, as well as Liturgy of the Hours, Stations of the Cross, and all other group services, Bible studies and activities beginning immediately. The dispensation I have offered for all Catholics in our archdiocese from the obligation to attend Sunday Mass is now extended through Palm Sunday, April 5. At this time, all churches are to remain open to individuals for personal prayer, devotions and confessions. As with my directive on March 15 to close schools, this decision has not been made lightly. However, caring for both our physical and spiritual health go hand-in-hand, and the health, safety and overall well-being of the people of the archdiocese is my first priority. Pending updates and guidance from local and state government and health officials, we have preliminary plans to resume Masses beginning April 6; however, we will re-evaluate at a later date. From Fr. Chuck Barthel: Since we now have the capability to live stream the Eucharist, both the weekend and the weekday Mass schedule will fundamentally remain the same, with two exceptions. There will now be a Mass at 830am on Friday morning, rather than a communion service. There will not be a Mass at 830am on Saturday morning. This will be the first time that I have presided at a Eucharist without people, which is also being live streamed. I am not sure how awkward this will look or feel. A decision as to whether Holy Communion will be brought to those who are homebound must be mutually agreed upon by both the communicant and the minister, whether ordinary or extraordinary. Other decisions are still being finalized, such as if we are having the Reconciliation service or not. I will keep you updated via Flocknote as these decisions are made For additional items from Archbishop Carlson’s latest guidelines, click here. |
MARCH 14, 2020
WE NOW HAVE THE ABILITY TO LIVE STREAM MASSES!
see link at top of page.
(Audio and Video quality are limited at this time until a new camera and sound equipment arrive,
but given the impact of COVID-19, we wanted to begin streaming as soon as possible)
MARCH 13, 2020
Coronavirus Update #3 from Archbishop Carlson
At 630 pm, Friday evening, March 13, 2020,
Archbishop Carlson issued his 3rd update on the coronavirus. Here are the items that warrant your immediate attention.
All Catholics within the Archdiocese of St. Louis are dispensed from their obligation to attend Sunday Mass for the next three weekends (March 14-15, March 21-22 and March 28-29). As with the Lenten practice of abstinence, you are reminded to exercise good judgement and not “excuse yourself lightly” from your obligation. As of this evening, our Mass schedule will remain unchanged.
Everyone who is sick, elderly or vulnerable because of a medical condition are urged to remain at home. Please understand that Mass schedules and availability, as well as parish and diocesan events, may change, especially if our clergy are affected by illness.
It is strongly recommended that parishioners receive Holy Communion in the hand. Holy Communion distributed by extraordinary ministers will be administered in the hand only. However, if parishioners wish to receive Holy Communion on the tongue, you are to receive it only from the Mass celebrant. Furthermore, as a safety precaution for other communicants and the celebrant, I would ask that you be the last recipients in the Communion procession.
Rev. Chuck Barthel
March 2 - Precautionary Measures due to Influenza
Taking Precautionary Steps
As you know, seasonal flu is currently making a significant impact in our neighborhoods and throughout the global community. As of 2:00p on Monday, March 2, the Center for Disease Control has estimated that during the current flu season, 8,200 people have died from various strains of influenza and an additional 140,000 people have been hospitalized. There have also been six deaths from the coronavirus so far, and all six deaths occurred in the State of Washington.
On March 2, in order to mitigate the spread of colds, flu, and other contagious illnesses, Archbishop Carlson asked that all parishes of the Archdiocese begin taking the same precautionary measures throughout the Archdiocese. We have been doing many of these precautions since the beginning of February. The following three lists contain what our mass monitors and staff members will continue doing, some changes that will affect our past practices, and a few reminders.
Rev. Chuck Barthel
What our Mass Monitors and Staff Members are being asked to do: